tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post8626553784025489414..comments2023-06-29T08:20:01.796-05:00Comments on Elenatintil: Mourning the Wedding I didn't have.Elizabeth Amy Hajekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01190748325255565418noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-81383267849794896102014-03-18T17:51:43.441-05:002014-03-18T17:51:43.441-05:00My parents were both sick on their wedding day. Da...My parents were both sick on their wedding day. Dad had stomach flu and Mom had bronchitis. There was a ton of confusion because he barely made it through the ceremonies before getting so sick that his parents took him to the doctor...without telling her. :P They say it was miserable when they were doing it, but twenty-five years later they look back and laugh...and also smile at how it ended Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09802378987574352536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-87562417255139233372014-03-06T13:29:06.082-06:002014-03-06T13:29:06.082-06:00I can relate to your sadness. My wedding wasn'...I can relate to your sadness. My wedding wasn't at all what I pictured. None of my friends or family came, due to location and circumstances leading up to the wedding. The worst part was that my sister wasn't there and I'd always wanted her to be by my side when I got married. On the flip side, the couple who were our maid of honor and best man made our wedding to be a joyous Elaine J. Daltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11284724795588367164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-45622512821706909802014-03-05T19:08:00.102-06:002014-03-05T19:08:00.102-06:00It's me again!
I just thought I would add to...It's me again! <br /><br />I just thought I would add to my previous comments a tiny story. My sister is a photographer and has shot weddings herself. She once had a situation during a wedding where the bride and the bride's mother fought and argued the whole day. My sister said the bride was trembling and in tears the whole day. Her mother refused to be part of the family photos and Rachaelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-91070189756031166832014-03-05T16:39:05.417-06:002014-03-05T16:39:05.417-06:00I read through your post a couple of times and tho...I read through your post a couple of times and thought I might reply. Firstly, I don't think shedding tears negates anything of the day. The blessings you received on that day remain no matter what. <br />In relation to what happened on your wedding day I can understand what you must be feeling - it's so different from what you imagined and planned. That would be a really hard thing to Rachaelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-45531845891999676192014-03-04T19:00:06.573-06:002014-03-04T19:00:06.573-06:00You have ever right to be upset... honestly, I'...You have ever right to be upset... honestly, I've been amazing that you hadn't talked about this sooner. Even now, I think you are dealing much better with this then I could have if I were in your place. It's very natural that you be upset about the memories you miss, and you should take as long as you need to to work through it. In the end, it won't diminish or take away your Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11021288861768475224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-59596192646661269832014-03-04T18:36:14.444-06:002014-03-04T18:36:14.444-06:00I think most brides have something that they wish ...I think most brides have something that they wish could have happened differently on their wedding day. I know I have some regrets. But you have had to go through something that no bride should ever have to....and that is definitely something worth crying about. A woman's wedding day is the most important day of her life. We start planning the event when we're little, and dream about it Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219894793257558801.post-72898878695088277082014-03-04T18:01:39.231-06:002014-03-04T18:01:39.231-06:00As I told you that day, there wasn't one thing...As I told you that day, there wasn't one thing you could have done to make that day any more perfect. :) <br /><br />But no, shedding tears over it does NOT in any way diminish that day! You're not mourning the wedding you didn't have. You're acknowledging that you didn't have the wedding you expected. And yet you had an amazingly beautiful wedding in spite of, in outright Matthew Bowmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06273178438850972234noreply@blogger.com